Let's Reflect...

Am back from hibernation! Unfortunately instead of coming out with a freshly and rejuvenated feeling, am nauseated and having a vulgar taste in my mouth am almost puking because of pictures going round of a certain Honorable, giving someone a blowjob. Those pictures are disgusting, not to mention revolting, repugnant and nauseating... Even if you hate someone or you are trying to prove you are the king (of something) and you do not like to be challenged sometimes what you think is being a hero makes you look foolish and pathetic. Am wondering where Maendeleo ya Wanaume , Mr. Ndiritu could be? I was hoping to hear a comment from him but he seems to be very silent these days. I am having my own speculation as to who may have posted those photos if indeed they are real and even if they are not we can clearly see who is in the pictures. Am also sure my readers have their culprit in mind and there is a very high likelihood we have the same person in mind…but what I can say to ...

I have this weird feeling that some of our church leaders seem to enjoy attending funerals and seeing marriages breaking. Why do I say so, how can someone who declares himself/herself God chosen clearly see something dangerous on your path and not warn you of the impending danger? And when another person warns you about it, they get infuriated, and even rebuke the people who want to save your life in the name of the bible. Am very confused… As a church leader you are privileged to know intimate details of your members, and that is why you know when one is very active outside his/her matrimonial home because they have confided in you. And am sure you know if they do not use a condom there is a very high chance that they may get a sexually transmitted infection which they will in turn bring home infect their faithful partner. Who, when they discover what has been brought home, as a result of unfaithfulness, May, depending of their human reaction commit suicide, kill the partner, f...

I still cannot understand what the hullabaloo is all about with the condom advert. My view, that advert makes a lot of sense. The makers of the advert are realistic and admitting that married people are having illicit sex or enjoying the forbidden fruits outside of their matrimonial homes. What I construed from the advert is that the woman is not having her nocturnal exercises at home and hence her need to keep a side dish to provide  those essential services. Am sure there are many valid reasons in homes that are driving couples to leave their matrimonial beds. That, I think is what the church leaders should be addressing, not the sheath they choose for protection. We need to know why respectable men/women feel the need to quench their thirst away from home. And the best people to furnish us, with that information is the church leaders because they are the ones who do counseling to these couples. Church leaders should think of how to address the sex subject rathe...

My opinion is that men get more emotionally involved with a woman when they have sex than women do. Why is that, this days we read so many stories in the media of women involved in extra marital affairs and the only way a woman is caught, is when the husband engages the services of a medicine man/woman to catch his unfaithful wife. Now if a woman can have an affair and she is not caught or does not betray herself that can only mean they do not get emotionally involved and they know how to separate issues. That is why I am forwarding a thought that women can have sex with no strings attached and not even feel guilty about it which makes them very dangerous. Men because they do not understand women or maybe because women cry easily decided to call them the weaker sex. That statement I think works against men because they drop their guard since they are dealing with a weaker sex who cries easily, and that is why men are easily manipulated. Every time you are dealing with...

After learning to speak English fluently and correctly people graduate to something that is very infuriating. In Kenya we all come from different cultures which are usually identified with a certain characteristic especially when speaking English and let us all bear in mind this is a foreign dialect. What usually happens, there is a tendency to replace the correct consonant in a word with a wrong consonant or making a certain letter silent. For example the letter L in a word is replaced with letter R and vice versa, others put letter H where it is not supposed to be and make it silent where it is supposed to be sounded, others replace letter V with letter P and vice versa and the list goes on and on.                                                ...

A good friend told me the best advice an elderly woman gave her when she was getting married is that “some organs don’t get annoyed”. According to my kikuyu culture there is a saying that “ mundu mugi ndare muhere wa uhoro ” loosely translated a wise person does not need a lot of explanations they read between the lines and draw an informed conclusion. The Psalmist also says “… So teach us to number our days …” (90:12). What in short the elderly lady was telling my friend is, when at some point in their marriage they disagree as a couple and then the husband wants to go for morning glory sessions she should not deny him his conjugal rights. And remember the scripture also tells couples “… Do not deny yourselves to each other, unless you first agree to do so…” 1 Cor 7:5. That is what the elderly lady meant that even when you are so livid to always remember that some parts of your body did not get annoyed. What we need to understand is that we waste a lot of valuable time g...

I have always wondered what bloats men’s egos so much, to the extent that they feel obligated to turn their women into punching bags.                                                                                                                                            If a man measures his str...