Who needs a clueless virgin?

I was told of a story of two virgins who got married and apparently the lady had a hint of what happens on the wedding night but the dude had no idea. So they go to the room and the do their bible study and their devotion, to the astonishment of the lady, the young man said his goodnight and slept, and it went on for the duration of the honeymoon. So when they returned home, the girl, I would say was wise did not expose the young man but confided with the young man’s grandmother that they did not consummate their marriage. And according to her the man had no idea what should happen. So the grandmother decided to intervene, although extreme her interventions worked. She called both of them into her house and ordered them to strip naked, she then told the lady to lie down and then showed the boy where to insert the age mate. Long story short the boy eyes were opened and apparently enjoyed it so much, he could not get enough.

Being a virgin is good it makes you feel very clean, undefiled and very righteous and sometimes makes you look down on others who are in their secondary and even university virginity. But has it ever occurred to you that on your wedding night it ceases to matter and hence the questions have you prepared for your wedding night. With marriage your status completely changes. Eccl 3:1-8 “…there is time for making love and the time for not making love…” when you were a virgin that is time for not making love when you decide to get married a time for making love commences and hence the question have you prepared for it?

If you still hold the notion that good saved girls do not do those things. Hello! these things happen, marriage is not about your imported wedding gown and your brides maids and all the gifts you received, you will not go for honeymoon to do bible study and holding hands in prayer not that it is bad, it is good to pray in fact everything should start with prayer, but there are other organs that will be expected to hold each other at some point and by the way my saved sisters, God created sex he even has a sex manual in the form of Songs of Songs and according to God honeymoon should take one year Deut 24:5 “…when a man is newly married he not to be drafted into military service or any other public duty; he is to be excused from duty for one year, so that he can stay at home and make his wife happy…” I am of the opinion that ignorance is a sin Hosea 4:6 “…my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…”

Am sure the brothers will agree with me with all the self-control they endured during courtship, they do not want an extension after marriage because the bride was so saved that she did not have time to find out what happens after all the marching in church.  

Can I hear an Amen from the brothers!...

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