Nobody can be that busy…



When someone tells me that they are so busy, I make faces and go like yeah right! Am not impressed. I do not believe someone can be so busy to an extent that they do not have time for their loved ones. You see if you do not create time for your children because of your busy schedule other people or other things will fill that vacuum you have created.

I always wonder in your tight schedule where you get time to visit the toilet or even take a shower. When you are seated on that toilet seat do you count how many minutes you have spent doing your thing.

Exactly what are you so busy doing? Are you telling me that you are indispensable at your place of work, if you kick the bucket today you mean that job or ministry you are doing will cease to be. You fail to create time for your own personal life or your family because you are busy. You cannot even let someone love you, get serious!

Ecclesiastes says that in this world nothing changes “…life is useless, all useless, you spend your life working, laboring and what do you have to show for it? Generations come and generations go, but the world stays just the same” Eccl 1:2-3.

What I do not understand with human beings is, they ask God to give them someone to love  and when God answers your prayer you let that special someone to slip from you because you want to love them in your own terms forgetting they also have feelings and they will not wait for you to clear your calendar and love them back.

I believe even in your busy schedule you can create time for your loved ones. It is unwise to say that you will give them quality time during the vacation. The vacation you may be banking on your partner might also get busy, get transferred or decide to go back to school and hence no time for you.

Life is too short start creating time for your loved ones, if you are far away from each other talk on the phone, send Sms, chat on Facebook, start sharing your day to day experiences have something that you will build on when God allows you to finally meet.

Good people treasure what God has given you...

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